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26th-Apr-2002 12:25 am
photawl: I'm down to one cigarette a night..
EJ the DJ107: excellent
photawl: And did I ever mention that I hate drama?
EJ the DJ107: yes - and likewise, i do as well
photawl: Everyone seems to want me and Mandy apart.. We have a few friends that are fighting for us, but there are alot of ppl who
photawl: don't like it
EJ the DJ107: look, man - FUCK those people, the stupidest thing either of you could do is let other people have a say so in this relationship
EJ the DJ107: or to give them any energy
EJ the DJ107: any energy you give them takes away from her, remember that
EJ the DJ107: it's you and her, not you, her, and them
photawl: That makes sense, actually..
photawl: It's good to have ppl to talk to
photawl: That aren't involved
EJ the DJ107: I know what I'm talking about here
photawl: I dropped it, but some of them continue to bring things up
photawl: Makes it hard
EJ the DJ107: so - let them, eventually it'll burn itself out with no help from you
EJ the DJ107: giving it your energy is pretty immature when you get down to it
EJ the DJ107: it comes down to a simple question, really...
photawl: But it's like I told Mandy.. We have something special, and I REFUSE to let someone take it..
EJ the DJ107: are you man enough to rise above and do your thing, or does it have to be about other people
EJ the DJ107: make a choice and stick to it
EJ the DJ107: stand your ground, look at them, shake your head, laugh it off, and walk away with her hand in yours
EJ the DJ107: it's nothing but a mattter of will
EJ the DJ107: besides - if any of those people cared thing 1 about you OR her, they'd be more careful with your feelings
EJ the DJ107: so clearly they don't matter
EJ the DJ107: and if they don't matter, why the FUCK are you sweating them?
photawl: You're right
EJ the DJ107: it's not about me being right though, john - it's just the truth
photawl: You're absolutely FUCKING right
EJ the DJ107: fuck 'em - fuck 'em in the ear, what the hell do they know?
photawl: Yeah
EJ the DJ107: are any of THEM really happy?
EJ the DJ107: do any of THEM have the answers?
EJ the DJ107: or anything for themselves?
EJ the DJ107: probably not - so they don't matter
EJ the DJ107: they're pathetic little instigators
EJ the DJ107: fuck 'em
photawl: Rock on, brother
EJ the DJ107: can i get a hallelujah?
EJ the DJ107: ::waves hands in the air::
26th-Apr-2002 12:12 pm (UTC) - I agree
I agree. A relastionship is between the people in the relationship. Nobody else's opinion should matter. If you care about someone enough to be in the relatioship, than you shouldn't care what other people think. Don't waste your time with their opinions. Sure everyone's entitled to their opinion, however wring it might be. But it's just that. An opinion. If there's one thing I've learned with my week spending time with you Jude, it's that. "Fuck em all" LOL (Poetically put, I might add). Now it sounds great on paper, just gotta learn how to make it happen int he real world. There are only a few people in this world who's OPINION will sway me. My mother happens to be at the top of that very short list. (Hey, I'm a momma's boy, I freely admit it)

I hope everything works out for your friend....
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