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The Quick & The Dirty... 
18th-Jun-2002 06:41 am
Alrighty then...


My trigger finger is itchin' like a motherfucker. Having read everyone else's opinions thus far about what is right, wrong, blah blah blah bleh bleh bleh...

If I'm on your LJ friend's list, and you don't like what I have to say, probably taking me off your friend's list would be a good idea. That's the first thing.

Second thing is - no one has to like a single word of what I have to say, and feel free to call me anything you wish. I'm certain I've been called worse by better people. If you resort to namecalling with me, and throw a nasty label on me that I know doesn't fit me, I'll most likely roll my eyes. It's said that the truth hurts in such cases. There you go on that one.

Third point of order, I call it like I see it. If I'm wrong, I'll say I'm wrong - if not, I have nothing to apologize for.

Josh: Thank you for your tact in responding to me.

Kelly: Having read your reply, I'd like it known that John has never said anything disparaging about you to me. So he's never accused you of instigation to me before. As for the rest, we'll agree to disagree. I told you I wasn't the gramar nazi!

Mandy: Tell you what.. You put a gag on your buddy blenderfh2 and I'll never post another unkind thing about you in this journal. That way no one has to hear you making hypocritical statements like "mind your own business" and "It's my relationship, not yours".

Minding my own business about your relationship? You ceased HAVING a relationship with John, so it's not yours alone anymore - and I'm one of the ones to pick him up and dust him off. Don't like my methods? It's not your fault, just your problem. I never doubted until recently that you cared for John, but I think you did some things that were selfish and coldhearted, the least of which was breaking up with him. Clearly that should have happened if you weren't ready - no blame in that. It's not like I think you should be crucified for that decision, I'm not upset with you for that at all. But you didn't want a relationship with him anymore and yet didn't break it off COMPLETELY and instead opted to have him think this was a temporary separation.

Oh - whining about the ring because you tried to give it back and he wouldn't take it? If you were breaking up with the guy, you shouldn't have accepted it in the first damned place. Then - to top it all off, breaking off a relationship with someone while online????????? Oh yeah, that's love and consideration of someone else's feelings that you claim to care so deeply about.

Before you go and bawl John out for not defending you against me, suggest that YOUR friend publicly apologize before you make such assertions. If I was "bad" for what I said and John wasn't trying to defend your "good name", what the hell makes you think her nastiness towards him is any better or more legitimized? You're grubbing on cake that ain't yours. Pay for it or give it up.

"So if you want me you can write me
and the town that you can find me's called...
KISS MY ASS, MEXICO".


"What You Signed Up For" - Jennifer Nettles
Comments 
18th-Jun-2002 05:14 am (UTC) - Wooo...
Damn skippy baby!!!
19th-Jun-2002 04:15 am (UTC) - Re: Wooo...
Jude Bennett.. Callin' it out since 1970!
18th-Jun-2002 09:55 am (UTC)
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Oh - whining about the ring because you tried to give it back and he wouldn't take it? If you were breaking up with the guy, you shouldn't have accepted it in the first damned place. Then - to top it all off, breaking off a relationship with someone while online????????? Oh yeah, that's love and consideration of someone else's feelings that you claim to care so deeply about.

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yeah, so i gave my ex a ruby and diamond ring for her birthday two years ago come august. she took the thing, and then broke up with me later that night. said "it wasn't working, but i'm still the best friend she's ever had". then the bitch, a week or two after i leave, GIVES THE RING AWAY to someone else. i mean, how disrespectful can some people be?
19th-Jun-2002 03:28 am (UTC)
Neil,
I think that in your case sentiment is wasted on the thoughtless and insincere. Clearly you were the victim of a complete ragged cunt in disguise as a normal person.

In this particular case, the girl has a history of this sort of behavior. I'm not sure what that is all about, just that the fellow in question is a friend of mine who came to me brokenhearted for support. I don't tolerate such things well, and whether or not that is a fault is really anyone's guess. It's an Italian-loyalty thing. The thing is, though - you can always read between the lines if you're observant enough - and see what is really going on.
18th-Jun-2002 12:03 pm (UTC) - I can do that
Everythings fine by me. You seem pretty nice, I hope that you know I only consider our comments a discussion, rather then an 'argument' or 'fighting' cause well I'm tired of the mad crazy wars. Make Love and not war or something...heh..Now back to our regulary scheduled lives...and btw Grammar nazis are bad! >:0
19th-Jun-2002 04:29 am (UTC) - Re: I can do that
DRAT! I was hoping you would have noticed that I intentionally misspelled "Grammar", because I thought that was funny - but I digress...

It was never my intention to fight or argue, I was just giving my opinion. I don't think Mandy is a bad person, I have stressed to John that I have no hatred for her For as long as I can remember, that has gotten me in trouble more times than I can count. Then again, one of my nicknames as a child was "The Mouth". Go figure!
19th-Jun-2002 10:17 am (UTC) - Re: I can do that
hrm...me too! My mommy said I said some pretty odd things as a child...
19th-Jun-2002 12:09 pm (UTC) - Re: I can do that
"The Mouth" heh? Do your talents include... oh... under-aged readers. Nevermind. Let's play baseball sometime soon...? *wink wink* (Obscure reference to recent purchase of ball caps to be worn at Atlanta Pride 2002)

D
19th-Jun-2002 06:25 pm (UTC) - Re: I can do that
Grammar nazis are not bad!! Without us, who would regulate intelligence on the internet? ;)
19th-Jun-2002 08:40 pm (UTC) - Re: I can do that
grammargrammersmammer...its silly...its binding, and LOTS of intelligent ppl don't use grammersmammergrammar....bah! >:) hehehe :-p
21st-Jun-2002 01:48 pm (UTC) - Re: I can do that
Grammar alert! Grammar alert! Violation of code 5432 at 101 Strawberry Lane! Must investigate immediately! Whee-oo-whee-oo-whee-oo-whee-oo!!!!!!
19th-Jun-2002 01:56 am (UTC) - Dude!
I don't know who genericwhiteboy is, but dammit that is a cool icon! You rock!
19th-Jun-2002 04:31 am (UTC) - Re: Dude!
His name is Neil, and he's one of the regulars in the Atheism chatroom I rant in occaisionally. He's great!
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